"As we work to create light for others, we naturally light our own way." - Mary Ann Radmacher
Random Act of Kindness Day
By Molly Yuska, PGK Founder
They say it's the little things that count. As a parent, I couldn't agree more. As we continue to move through this Random Act of Kindness Week, with Random Act of Kindness Day itself now upon us, it's a great reminder that all of the little things we do for others really do add up to something big. When you consider the ripple effect of those cumulative actions, the impact is ultimately unknown. So, as you move through your Friday today, I challenge you not just to think about the long weekend ahead and what you may hope to get out of it. Take a few moments to do one of the following:
- Grab the tab of the person behind at the drive thru;
- Send a letter to a hurting friend or relative who's lost a loved one or needs a pick me up;
- Look for the good in others and give a compliment (or several!) to those around you;
- Make a quick batch of cookies and drop them off with an elderly neighbor or a new mom with a "thinking of you" note;
- Simply smile and hold the door for the person coming in or out before you;
- Take an extra moment to really listen to what someone else has to say and be the comforting ear they need today.
And why confine such acts to a day or a week? We challenge you to act with this kind of intentional kindness every Friday, or better yet, every day. The options are truly endless, as is the impact of all of us walking through life together in this way.
By Amy Johnson, Outreach and Marketing Manager, PGK - Bay Area
If you’re like me, you’ve probably seen and read all the hype about simple living. Edit your life! Less is more! Simplify, simplify, simplify! While I’m all about this in theory, I’m a work in progress when it comes to practice. Our family has taken baby steps, and I will admit that each step forward brings about a bit more breathing room, and in turn, a bit more happiness.
Whether by happenstance or because I’ve got simple living on the brain, the concept of simplicity has made its way into our service. Our church is participating in Village House, an interfaith program through which 15 homeless women are provided shelter and services through the winter. The program relies on volunteers to offer a variety of support, from providing medical care to serving as campus watch. Our family signed up for laundry duty. Once a week, we collect a dirty laundry bag belonging to one of the guests. We bring it home, wash, dry, and fold the clothes, and return the bag that evening. All without ever seeing the woman whose laundry we just folded. It’s been an interesting experience in service because not only is the act super simple (who doesn’t enjoy a pile of freshly laundered clothes?), it is also anonymous.
I started brainstorming other simple, anonymous acts of service we could do as a family and was totally inspired! Here’s the best of the bunch for those of you who want to give it a try. Maybe you’ll find that simple giving is the first step towards simple living.
Simple Giving Ideas
- Walk your shopping cart back to the front of the store. Better yet, offer to take someone else’s cart! (I have been the recipient of this while juggling two toddlers and was sooooo grateful)
- Next time you bake cookies, make an extra batch for your local fire department, police department, or nursing home.
- Bring a trash bag with you to the park and collect litter you find along the way. (But please don’t forget to wear gloves!)
- Pick up a few extra groceries to donate during your next shopping trip. Most stores collect donations on site.
- Pay for a stranger’s bus fare or cup of coffee. Perhaps you’ll start a pay-it-forward trend!
- We have a difficult time when we come across someone asking for help at an intersection. Keep granola bars or bus tokens in your car to give when you encounter someone asking for help. Or if you want to go further, make a few sock sacks to keep in the car and pass out when needed. Fill a new pair of socks with individually wrapped snacks and a water bottle. It will be a useful and portable treat for them to enjoy.
- Remember all those packets of crayons you collected from restaurants? Donate them to a local preschool or family shelter. You could even start a Crayon Collection!
- Leave a nice note or poem for your mail carrier to enjoy.
- Help someone with a stroller get through a door or around an obstacle. Again, I’ve been the recipient of this and was very grateful!
- Like to craft? Make greeting cards or paper flower arrangements for your local hospital or nursing home.
- Give your neighbor a heart attack! Simply cut up a bunch of hearts from pink, red or purple paper, write sweet messages on them, and tape them on your neighbor’s outside front windows. Pinterest is your go-to place for more ideas like this (Boo Grams, Candy Grams, etc.)
- Are you the next David Blaine or Harry Houdini? Take your magic show on the road to a local children’s hospital or nursing home.
- Last but note least, open the door for someone else. It doesn’t get much simpler than that!
Spotlight: Kids for Positive Change
We are lucky. We get to know some of the coolest people and projects through our work, and there are so many inspiring kids and grown-ups to get to know! One such woman is Camille Licate, founder of Kids for Positive Change. Kids for Positive Change is a multi-media educational platform with live enrichment programs and online videos for kids focused on raising awareness and taking positive action for animals, people and the planet! Camillle knows every child has a positive idea that can light the world! And here are three of them - Reese (age 6), Morgan (7) and Mia (6).
Find out how they took a birthday party and made it yummy for others! And if you want to know why, it's simple. Just ask a six year old:
"I think it's important to help kids in need because I want them to stay healthy so they can live a longer life."
Imagine if we all thought about that on our birthdays. Thank you, Reese, Mia and Morgan, for being such good examples!